In this world, every job has it's hard and boring; every life has its ups and downs; everyone has their issues and unknown sadness and helplessness behind them.
Some moments, and with a kind of warmth and tolerance to forgive some unexpected errors and mistakes.
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The ticket seller seems a little impatient today; maybe she had a big quarrel with her husband; The food doesn’t deliver within the agreed time, maybe his bike had some trouble;
Your package has some scratches, maybe it was the young courier who accidentally scratched it in the car somewhere in a hurry.
And when it is raining or snowing, please don't rush them. In fact, they are more anxious than you, the more they deliver, they will have more income.
But there are some additional factors in the world that can't be predictable and controlled.
When others miss the time or say something less pertinent, please don't be angry, please don't curse and complain first.
Maybe you will get some satisfaction by cursing, but the damage you did to others is far from being estimated.
It is possible to frustrate the confidence of an excellent staff, and move away from the industry; and may affect the middle-aged man, who has worked hard to feed his family, lose his one-third of salary this month.
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A few days ago, my friend, Lynn, went to a courier company to collect his parcel. When he first gets his parcel, his face suddenly turns red.
And I saw a long breakage on the parcel.
In fact, the things inside are not valuable, it’s just a few ordinary plastic pots.
But Lynn can’t think clearly at that moment, and took out his phone and took several photos and sent to the seller, and use angry words to ask and criticize the seller.
When we forgot about that issue after a few days, but that afternoon, Lynn received a strange phone call. The caller was a young courier, with his humble voice: Sir, I’m so sorry, your parcel was delivered by me, I am really sorry. Finally, with a powerless voice: I was deducted $50 from my salary today.
Lynn said that he did not think that things would be so serious, he was just eager to release his feelings. But did not expect to cause the courier to lose salary. His pots were only cost less than $10.
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Sometimes, impulse is indeed a devil. This demon may take away your anger and unhappiness for a short time, but it may leave you and others with a long, irreparable scar.
So, be sure not to make any decision when you are angry, because you do not know that the decision you made, might not affect you, but you might deeply hurt some innocent person. And when facing problems, we must first learn to be calm and learn to communicate.
I know a woman around my city, I call her Mdm. Red. Mdm. Red’s husband works on the construction site; she was complaining that her husband doesn’t care about the family, everyday use busy as an excuse, ignore her, and also ignore their kids.
She said: "Who knows what kind of unrestrained life he's living outside?" Maybe when to a restaurant all day, go KTV, go sauna.
On one occasion, she said to me with dispirited and discouraged voice: "If continue this way, I intend to divorce him." It's going to be a hell of a day. Every day is a busy day; when I just make a phone call, after a few words, he will be hurriedly hung up.
Until this summer vacation, Mdm Red took her kids to her husband's construction site and stayed there for a few days.
When she came back, she seemed to be much milder. And when she talks about her husband, her eyes are full of heartache and understanding.
She said: I really do not know that is how he lives. A board can be used as a bed, a bowl of noodle become his lunch and dinner. Started working before the sunrise and work until late night. After work, came back home just wipe the face, even the socks are too lazy to take off, directly fell asleep. Well, to be honest, it's not easy for a man to feed his family.
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In fact, in this world, everyone is not easy. Women have their hard time, men also have their hard time, bosses will also have their issues, employees have employees issue, and it is not easy for a human to be human.
What we probably can do is a little more understanding, more considerate, some more transposition thinking, more rational and human nature.
Perhaps our life is not easy, but a little warm heart can add a strong momentum in this hard life!
