Introduction

The present treaty is aimed at the young population that lives in the chain of blocks, of course, which for adults plays an important role in their relationship with adolescents. However, as we have commented in previous studies, we know that adolescence is complex, because older people, who are people who try to be exhaustive and responsible, try to find ways of support and collaboration with young people.

And as the adolescents who, at this moment, read this publication also try to be thorough and responsible, it is logical that in turn arise similar questions to these:

How can I get a better understanding with my parents, my teachers and the elderly in general?

What will be the best way for young people to collaborate with adults to improve our mutual relationships?

It is important that we emphasize that, if adults do not find it easy to understand adolescents, it is not easy for them to understand and accept older people.

Young people have a hard time understanding some of the attitudes of the elderly. And it is logical that this is so, because the age differences are added to those that have caused the profound cultural and social changes we are experiencing. Now, it is always positive to try to understand the other party with whom we have to live.

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So, how can the teenager understand with adults?

You, a teenage friend, should consider that it is always positive to try to understand the other party with whom we have to live, and that it is normal for your youthful energy to induce you to think that you need and deserve greater independence; but at the same time, first of all, sincerity, you realize that you need the support of your parents and teachers. Then, when you claim your deserved right to freedom, do not forget that older people have sacrificed that same right more than once to satisfy their needs, or simply their tastes. In addition, his intense sense of justice will not allow him to forget that every right corresponds to a duty.

You expect your parents to listen to you, because you have a lot to say about many things. So, please, tell him. Do not wait to be guessed; Because that lends itself to misunderstandings. And do not you think that if you also say it positively and avoid provocative tones, you will have more possibilities to accept your proposals? Maybe your parents have not realized your need and they are not taking you seriously; but if you request an appointment to talk seriously with them about their problems, they will undoubtedly listen and attend to you.

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It is true that you want everything to go faster, so that your problems are solved immediately and according to what you consider fair. But just as "the independence of a nation can not be won in an hour", its emancipation can not be achieved in one day either; nor should it be so, because we all have to learn to manage freedom.

... that does not allow you to do everything you want? The truth is that adults sometimes get a little heavy. Therefore, it is convenient that you put into play all your flexibility and try to put yourself in their place. You will see how they even "pass", it is because they want to avoid some of the problems they had to suffer when they were young, due to their inexperience or impatience. And, above all, let's not forget that their performance, more or less successful, is motivated by the love they profess.

Consider this when your parents ask you to help with household chores, or take care of a sibling, or remind them to complete their homework, even if they do not want to collaborate with the best people. The first you will win will be you; since, in addition to helping those who have done so much and do for you, will acquire good habits of order and self-discipline, and the practical knowledge necessary to develop in adult life.

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We come to another important point, dear adolescent reader, is that your father and your mother try to be your friends; but sometimes it is not easy for them; either by their very nature, because they find it difficult to understand their positions, because they are not communicative enough ... So, do not make it too difficult. It is a privilege to have a trusted friend, with experience, who appreciates it with all sincerity and is willing to apologize for their mistakes. Begin the conversation, at least once in a while.

I know that you, like everyone else, prefer that all they tell you is to praise you. Now, when your elders correct you or discipline you, even if they do not do it in the best possible way, attend to their reasons. Of course, sometimes the older ones run out of patience. Sometimes, maybe your anger with other elders, or your personal problems, will affect the deal with you. What, nevertheless, is clear is that, with errors, and with undoubted success, first of all they want their good. And if your performance does not seem fair or timely, ask them when the storm has passed, with humility, but firmly, to give explanations. It is almost certain that they will try to give them to you. And, then, if you do not understand your reasons, at least be reasonable and understanding ... try to excuse your mistakes.

Finally, dear youngster from the block chain, remember that older people also have their problems, some really serious. They also need your understanding, your support and, above all, your love. So, even if it seems like a child thing, give them a hug and a kiss from time to time, and tell them some simple but sincere phrases of gratitude and recognition.