"Is everyone free tonight? I'd like to invite you all to dinner."
A colleague suddenly asked in the group chat.
"Is there anything to announce?"
"Are you going to get married?"
"No, because I'm leaving, I'm leaving the company!"
This reply, the group instantly become silence for a long time, no one is willing to send anything, not even an emoji.
"I'm not going."
One of the colleagues replied.
"I agree."
"Me too."
"I’m not going too."
"Cmon, there will be a chance for us to meet in the future. In fact, I also struggled for a long time, but this is the best way to leave this company."
Clearly, this is a formal announcement, and we are only acting as a recipient without the consent of any of us.
This is obviously a farewell dinner, especially after getting the bonus.
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In fact, from studying until graduate and started working, such a farewell dinner, I had too many times, sometimes is others, sometimes is mine.
The more I had this kind of dinner, the more I understand, a person is born lonely, life is a lonely journey.
We have heard a lot about the farewell, but when it really comes, we all forgot to say good words, forgot to say the most appropriate words.
In the workplace, this kind of comes and goes, have become more and more numb and normal, sometimes we are a spectator, sometimes we are the protagonist of the story.
Such a parting is not thrilling, unforgettable, but when it comes to the moment, the heart will emerge a little bit of sadness and reluctant.
Today's era, everyone is moving too fast, everyone will not stay in one place for too long because some things will always move people, or because of various other reasons, require them to choose to leave, chose to start again.
Therefore, the longer you move, you will have a deeper experience, everyone is a traveler around you, no one will always accompany you to the end.
This road of life, you are destined to walk alone.
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Leaving is popular in this world, but we are not good at farewell.
Indeed, we have slowly not good at farewell, even if had such a farewell for many times.
I think probably because every time we say goodbye, we will be more clear, the journey of life is your own, such a farewell is just an episode.
Some people come, some people go, but we continue to move forward all the times.
We are also slowly accustomed to, accustomed to people comes and goes, accustomed to farewell.
This habit, let us slowly become not good at farewell.
Such habits, let us understand that life is a lonely journey.
The cities of maze, people are accustomed to seeing the same scenery, walk the same route, to the same destination; Habits make people have a sense of security, but there is a kind of inexplicable loneliness. And you never know what your habits will make you miss.
We never know what we're going to miss, or whether it's a mistake.
What we can know is that life is our own, it's not about others, we can't stand still, we can't be tied down by too many things, because that's not what we should be on our journey.
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A friend said, he doesn’t like to have a close relationship with his colleagues, because he feels that it is a waste of time and has no meaning and value, this will only make him more tired because perhaps one day they will just leave without any notice.
In this way, all of it has become a waste, might as well choose to refuse from the beginning.
I understand and agree what he said; we can’t let others leave wrinkles in our heart, it is not our real expectations of life.
A person's life itself has been very difficult, why need to participate in that meaningless collision?
Since it is destined to have no result, it is better not to begin.
