The night before yesterday, I just finished writing an article, I feel like my neck is going to break.
Then, I received a message from one of my friends:
“You gave me a lot of reason to move forward, sometimes when I don’t feel like writing, after seeing you continuously writing a new article, virtually gave me a lot of encouragement. ”
After seeing this message, I was moved and almost cry, immediately fired up, all the pain are almost gone.
I replied to him:
"You too, you still insist on writing even you are so busy.”
Then he replied a word, a special classic word, that makes me have the urge to write an article.
He said: "Be friend with what kind of person, you will become the same kind of person.”
My friend is my motivation to continue writing.
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Writing this type of article is particularly painful. A lot of people disdain, think that this type of article is a routine, can be written effortlessly. In fact, only those who are writing this will understand the bitterness.
For example, whenever I'm choosing a topic, I have to think twice, and repeatedly consider whether the topic is good enough, will people clicked in, will people read until the end.
After finished writing the article, need to do proofreading, careful examination the typos, check whether the sentence is smooth to read.
This chore, at least for me, is very painful.
What the writer fears the most is no idea on what to write. Countless nights sitting in front of the computer, when I can’t think of anything, I will stab myself with the pen(literally).
So what to do when you have no idea, and you feel like don't want to write?
My approach is to look at my role model.
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My friend owns a bar; he was busy every day, often close the bar around one or two in the morning, when he reached home, it is basically deep in the night.
But even in this absence of sleep condition, he still insists on writing on a weekly basis.
Therefore, whenever I was particularly tired and don't want to write, I will think: Look at him, and then look at yourself, what excuse do you have not to continue writing?
Those inspirational friends, they are like a lamp, standing in front, giving you direction and strength when you cry and want to give up.
Everyone has their laziness.
If you follow a lazy person, your laziness will enlarge. If you follow a hardworking person, your laziness will slowly decline.
A while ago I met a girl; she is also an office worker, nine to six, after work, she has to cook, wash dishes, bath and wash clothes.
Her post updated quite frequently, basically updated daily. Although she just started writing, she now has more than 80,000 followers on social media. So every time we chat, I will call her "God."
She is a very inspiring girl.
She was not very good at writing articles when she started, and she was majoring in science. She said, one of her university friends, is a cultured youth, especially obsessed with reading and writing. Later, after hanging out with her for a long time, she was slowly infected.
In the third year of university, her friend took her to the library to read a lot of literature books.
I say: ”Your friend is really God of God, you should be thankful for her.”
She said: “Well, if it weren't for her, I really don't know what I was doing. Also, all this year, she gave me countless suggestions, which part of the article is poorly written, how to write a title, how to promote, she really taught me a lot of things.”
Later, I also unintentionally learn a lot from her. Everything must persist, never give up halfway.
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So you see, the social circle you are in, the person you are in touch with, is inseparable from your view of choosing a friend.
No matter who your friends are, you'll learn something from them slowly.
I have a classmate from my junior high school; he always is one of the top grades students.
In his house, his certificate was piled up like a mountain, every time I went to his house, I was stressed.
His mother always like to show off a few, “Look at this, these are my son's previous certificate, look at these and these …”
In our senior high school year, he did not learn, joined a group of bad students fooling around, everyday climb out of the wall and play games at the Internet cafes.
At first, he also had scruples, he only went out after self-study, and came back before bedtime.
Later, he slowly has no scruples, and play all night.
His results from the first drop down to the last, then, the whole school was criticising, and his parents had to come to schools to plead countless times.
But it was too late. Eventually, he was dropped out of school and ended his study life.
That year, he was only 14 years old.
Many people will say, how can you blame his friend, you can only blame himself because he doesn’t have self-control.
In fact, I would like to say that the impact of a friend on a person is very important, otherwise, although the environment affects the children, the friends around you will have a greater effect.
Friends can help you reach heaven, but also help you reach hell.
Friends can give you candy, but also can give you poison.
Stay away from those who are always complaining; stay away from those who are lazy; stay away from those who like to gossip; stay away from those who are overflowing with negative emotion ...
What kind of person by your side will determine your future.
What kind of person your friends are, will decide what kind of person you will become.
Therefore, think twice before you make friends.
