I'm working hard because I want to have an ordinary life.
"Sometimes we run desperately, just to stay at the same place". And I want to say that sometimes we work incredibly hard just for an extraordinary life.
I know you're trying so hard to fulfill your small goals in your life. In fact, you just want to have a house of your own, even a small one but at least to give you a sense of belonging. In fact, you just want to find your true love to marry with, even if it might need to wait a little longer.
But these seemingly ordinary desires are not easy to fulfill as we think. You need to spend a lot of time and energy trying to find it and get it.
Everyone wants to live in a relaxed and happy life, but the truth is, most of us, we have to move forward so that we won’t get off track from the life we want.
Growth means that you are getting further away from the carefree days of your youth, you can only look back, but never go back.
You have to deal with the trivial and difficulties in work and life. Reach home with a tired body after work, but can not find someone to confide and rely on; You do not have much time to be sad, because you also have to seize the time to rest, and then face the second day of life.
You know that you can't earn an ideal paycheck by staying up late in bed and playing mobile phone games, and you can't get everything you want through fantasy.
Life is never easy, we all need to stand back up from continual fall. These days of hard times are all paved for one day, as the saying goes: "Always beat something you don't like and get something you want."
When you are particularly tired, you will inevitably feel uncomfortable and ask: why do some people look so relaxed but still have an ideal life?
Behind some smiles there are tons of clenched teeth.
You can't put yourself in the other person's shoes, and you don't know how many people who seem successful fall down and get back up, and how much difficulties a couple who look happy have experienced.
Everyone's life is not easy, but some people are good at expressing, some people are good at hiding.
As we mature, we will learn to put our sadness away and show an "I am very good" appearance in front of everyone. We no longer pour out our misfortunes, and I have always believed that these changes are the beginning of becoming strong.
The slowest-walking person, as long as he does not lose his goal, is faster than a man who is wandering aimlessly. "
Maybe you're not up on the top, and you probably don't know how to deal with the world. But it's ok to be happy even if you're not doing good, even if you are walking very slowly, but at least you have not been knocked down yet, not because of the difficulties of the drift, and degenerate, which is enough to be considered a great thing.
Courage is when you know you're going to lose before you start, but you still do it, and you have to carry through until the end persistently.
And I think, the so-called obsession with life, is that I do not know what will happen tomorrow, and I do not know how many tomorrows I have left. Even if I’m having a hard time, but I can see the meaning behind these hard time, it will make me feel worthy, and also let me live more and more valuable. And I also believe, what I want, one day, all will come.
